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PreambleAs strippers it is very common for us to tout the line that ‘you are paying for an experience, not a person’ and we hate it when guys come into the club…

 *Content note* This article contains discussions about disordered eating.  The clubs in which I have worked have had femme/female dancers and mostly male customers, so this is the dynamic that I will…

Dear SWERF, I don’t know what happened to you in your life that led you down into this dark place that you have found yourself in, but I would just like to…

Ask any experienced stripper who has worked in Western Europe, the USA, Australia and New Zealand over the past ten years and they will no doubt confirm that societal attitudes towards sex…

To close a deal   I have to ask you for a favor before you start reading my words, to take this story as it is: a piece of memory. This is…

Stripping, a jealous boyfriend and relationships Once I did ask him. “Why don’t you like my job?” “I never thought about it. I just don’t like it and probably never will”. During…

Stand-up comedy has been a nice way to combat the lockdown blues lately. The other day I decided to watch some really old acts that I still find funny from people who’ve…

Power in Western societies has a specific aesthetics: it looks like a “man”. Men control the world and they are the ones who hold most influential positions. As a consequence everybody has…

WHO IS OBJECTIFYING US? “The women who are really being emulated and obsessed over in our culture now – strippers, porn stars, pinups – aren’t even people. They are merely sexual personae,…

Red lights, high heels. Naked bodies exposing their souls, creatures of the night… What kind of people go to strip clubs? When I started stripping, my friends’ concern was that I would…